How to earn your respect for yourself?
Each is unaware of his identity and does not know who he is? Is it genuine or false? Good or evil? Believer or a hypocrite? The answer is very simple! You must first be cleaned shake over the surface to know what is in the rear!
Who am I?!
I am a man of God blessed with all the possibilities and capabilities that I can get to know them on my way, and Aftrty sound 100% .. In Alddan of the two (good and evil) and Pidie rights that I went to this direction or that direction, both in my hands, and I am in control of all human transactions which take place through me.
Who am I?!
I "person" I know that good and evil in front of me in front of me and that I choose my way and I am responsible for the consequences of all the dealings of all kinds with life and Sohacb Sohacb of myself and of the community and before God Almighty .. So the inevitable choice but to be a man ..!
If I had .. Continue in the right way it does not deviate, whatever the circumstances and pressures.
If Oktit .. Returned quickly and I am working to correct the mistakes and avoid them in the future.
I know I am a person who has suffered has made a mistake and this does not detract from the Kadri something, but I wore the dress stubbornness are all sins and is the master and I insisted that I am correct.
And now you know how you can earn your respect for yourself .. You have to work it and tame and fixing them by following these guidelines:
1 - to respect yourself, you must first respect others
It is unreasonable to respect myself and I speak with the "person" as if I loved him and loved him well, backed Eds him mangling the image and reputation, and interfere in his life and privacy without his ear and that is not appropriate .. How can I respect myself?!.
I respect others and their lives and their privacy .. So do not feel guilt towards them and thus feel Besgrk, and your respect for yourself not just as grown harvested, and also condemns the condemned, and busy for God, God's creation.
2 - do not prove yourself to one, not even for yourself
The proof of self-weakening them and their essence .. Be honest in all transactions regardless of the opinions of others, you can satisfy yourself, but no matter how hard I tried to satisfy all the people .. So be yourself and make your life perfect recital performance according to your vision and your personality is not in accordance with the views of others and their needs you ... It is not what you are Itqublk he should Itqublk from now .. You will not find else, the picture drawn by others you are not an obligation does not belong to you, they are free to do; including their thoughts and fantasies, and you are free to you you .. You.
3 - Ethics: Be Kellouka friendly
Morals are your passport to respect yourself .. A man without ethics (not man) says the Holy Prophet peace be upon him: (but sent to perfect good manners), does your creation Islam Are you on the path of your Prophet peace be upon him?! .. Warning Be careful, my brother, my sister .. Morals are what make us better human being human beings better believe better.
4 - Do not criticize or demean or groove
I think you learn the story of the creation of Adam peace be upon him and how the devil put down the fact that the Prophet peace be upon him Adam was created from clay and seek refuge with Allah from Satan the creation of a fire. How was to reward him?!
Dear reader: Do not criticize Vtantkd .. Nor groove You see some heedless .. Would not demean others degrades You see some of your business, and may God punish you and you would demean yourself at home and Allah is severe in punishment. God says in His Book: (O ye who believe, do not make fun of the people of the people hoping to be good for them, nor women from the women may be that not Giramnhen nor call each other Tnabzoa yourselves, do not name-calling evil debauchery after faith and does not repent, they are wrong) (rooms: 11) the truth of God Almighty.
5 - do not achieve the goals of someone else in life, you achieved your goals
Do not enter a particular college to satisfy the family .. Do not marry so and so because the interest so require .. Did not enroll in a job or position because of your father what he had dreamed all his life in this position.
You know your goals in life and achieved what you want for your life is not what you Iredoh others.
Not lived in the mantle of others .. Respect yourself and make your future travel and effort you and your ambition.
6 - to view the beauty of your personality forget the past and start again
Ended, the negative thoughts and beliefs that have held it by yourself throughout your life and start a new page with the page yourself in high esteem and entitlement to a clean new beginning .. I reject that person is old and begin by thy inner (Aftrtk sound) and begin to seek the help of God's blessing and it does not fail to avail forces Nasrtk and be honest in the beginning of the new God help you in this journey and ask forgiveness for all sins and the sins .. Due not only to the surface again with you and the new man .. Stsolny and who is he? I'll tell you is you!
Is not the answer is simpler than you think Be .. You, and you ended, all the mistakes of years you deserve to honor that person who wronged for many years .. It is worth it.
Here are two ways to clean up last year to start all over again: Quoting from the Internet
The first way: hands-free .. Free Talking
Hands-free .. It looks like the process of free association .. But it is more effective. Is a method may Isth some do, but if he benefits .. To make way for shame in his being. Method is as follows:
Majoring in half an hour today .. Left where all your business and Mhaglk .. Intervention in the room feel the psychological comfort, close the door .. So unique with yourself .. Not a bother .. Sit .. And imagine that someone like you Exactly .. Ijalsk ..
Start speech directed at him .. Talking about yourself .. Start with words .. For more than anything bothering you throughout your life .. From the person who feels that he controls you, and wishes to terminate his control, what more the events that hurt in your life .. Spoke Vdvd. Do not make any principles or morals of control in your words .. Spoke freely .. It does not matter reacted and started shouting abusive and this is the most important parts of pent-up feelings that exercise, go out. And attract her negatives in the form of insults or shouting or expression passive sentences.
Be nice if your side football Tqzvha strongly on the walls during outbursts of anger resulting from Actresses, it is more comfortable you sensitive
(These are examples of what practitioners are doing to these treatments, the intent of this does not make anything stop you from expressing what appeared to be .. Do you ..) Spoke and spoke and over .. Until you feel that the level of the emotion has subsided .. And talk .. Began is hard to build .. Here .. You already feel more comfortable from the first .. Undertake this exercise and connect it to a period of (two weeks) at least ..
Will come out of the room and you are someone else .. A different person .. Because you got rid of the concerns of stuck on the Guess of years.
The second method: free script .. Free Writing
A free script ..
It's the same idea, but you replace the expression in speaking, writing on paper. May be of Psychiatrists different methods in how to write their patients may give them .. A list of questions relating to their lives .. And analyze the answers ..
But we use the general method .. That the principle of bringing hidden by withdrawing the apparent .. Whenever we wrote any more .. And expressed more .. Starters, including recall .. Whenever brought us out from the depths, memories and feelings unknown and forgotten, tied with each other.
Way of writing does not depend not on literature and the culture .. Nor on the morality .. Hold the pen lightly, ie, do not press strongly on the pen .. Do not be nervous .. Write what appeared to you .. Get out of the depths of your heart .. Starting from the more something bothering you in your life .. Whether a person or a government or a position .. Or even of yourself .. Important .. Do not let anything stand in front of your phrase .. Type what appeared to you. Write for example .. Nuyak for good or bad that you have passed all your life .. Is true or not Type positions where you felt disappointed and a coward .. Write about someone you hate and matted it, you feel real to the type, and try to find the truth Lk him what is the origin and so on ..
Every day .. Writing with renewable .. Find topics abound .. And express a lot .. and over ..
And so on until complete (two weeks) .. Is the duration of treatment of the surface and discover the magnificence of the substance.
For the average person is sufficient to perform this exercise, which was accepted once a year.
Dear reader: not enough to want to respect ourselves, but we must do, including shows our respect for ourselves and ourselves .. Be a man .. Be yourself and do what is indicated by the.
Who am I?!
I am a man of God blessed with all the possibilities and capabilities that I can get to know them on my way, and Aftrty sound 100% .. In Alddan of the two (good and evil) and Pidie rights that I went to this direction or that direction, both in my hands, and I am in control of all human transactions which take place through me.
Who am I?!
I "person" I know that good and evil in front of me in front of me and that I choose my way and I am responsible for the consequences of all the dealings of all kinds with life and Sohacb Sohacb of myself and of the community and before God Almighty .. So the inevitable choice but to be a man ..!
If I had .. Continue in the right way it does not deviate, whatever the circumstances and pressures.
If Oktit .. Returned quickly and I am working to correct the mistakes and avoid them in the future.
I know I am a person who has suffered has made a mistake and this does not detract from the Kadri something, but I wore the dress stubbornness are all sins and is the master and I insisted that I am correct.
And now you know how you can earn your respect for yourself .. You have to work it and tame and fixing them by following these guidelines:
1 - to respect yourself, you must first respect others
It is unreasonable to respect myself and I speak with the "person" as if I loved him and loved him well, backed Eds him mangling the image and reputation, and interfere in his life and privacy without his ear and that is not appropriate .. How can I respect myself?!.
I respect others and their lives and their privacy .. So do not feel guilt towards them and thus feel Besgrk, and your respect for yourself not just as grown harvested, and also condemns the condemned, and busy for God, God's creation.
2 - do not prove yourself to one, not even for yourself
The proof of self-weakening them and their essence .. Be honest in all transactions regardless of the opinions of others, you can satisfy yourself, but no matter how hard I tried to satisfy all the people .. So be yourself and make your life perfect recital performance according to your vision and your personality is not in accordance with the views of others and their needs you ... It is not what you are Itqublk he should Itqublk from now .. You will not find else, the picture drawn by others you are not an obligation does not belong to you, they are free to do; including their thoughts and fantasies, and you are free to you you .. You.
3 - Ethics: Be Kellouka friendly
Morals are your passport to respect yourself .. A man without ethics (not man) says the Holy Prophet peace be upon him: (but sent to perfect good manners), does your creation Islam Are you on the path of your Prophet peace be upon him?! .. Warning Be careful, my brother, my sister .. Morals are what make us better human being human beings better believe better.
4 - Do not criticize or demean or groove
I think you learn the story of the creation of Adam peace be upon him and how the devil put down the fact that the Prophet peace be upon him Adam was created from clay and seek refuge with Allah from Satan the creation of a fire. How was to reward him?!
Dear reader: Do not criticize Vtantkd .. Nor groove You see some heedless .. Would not demean others degrades You see some of your business, and may God punish you and you would demean yourself at home and Allah is severe in punishment. God says in His Book: (O ye who believe, do not make fun of the people of the people hoping to be good for them, nor women from the women may be that not Giramnhen nor call each other Tnabzoa yourselves, do not name-calling evil debauchery after faith and does not repent, they are wrong) (rooms: 11) the truth of God Almighty.
5 - do not achieve the goals of someone else in life, you achieved your goals
Do not enter a particular college to satisfy the family .. Do not marry so and so because the interest so require .. Did not enroll in a job or position because of your father what he had dreamed all his life in this position.
You know your goals in life and achieved what you want for your life is not what you Iredoh others.
Not lived in the mantle of others .. Respect yourself and make your future travel and effort you and your ambition.
6 - to view the beauty of your personality forget the past and start again
Ended, the negative thoughts and beliefs that have held it by yourself throughout your life and start a new page with the page yourself in high esteem and entitlement to a clean new beginning .. I reject that person is old and begin by thy inner (Aftrtk sound) and begin to seek the help of God's blessing and it does not fail to avail forces Nasrtk and be honest in the beginning of the new God help you in this journey and ask forgiveness for all sins and the sins .. Due not only to the surface again with you and the new man .. Stsolny and who is he? I'll tell you is you!
Is not the answer is simpler than you think Be .. You, and you ended, all the mistakes of years you deserve to honor that person who wronged for many years .. It is worth it.
Here are two ways to clean up last year to start all over again: Quoting from the Internet
The first way: hands-free .. Free Talking
Hands-free .. It looks like the process of free association .. But it is more effective. Is a method may Isth some do, but if he benefits .. To make way for shame in his being. Method is as follows:
Majoring in half an hour today .. Left where all your business and Mhaglk .. Intervention in the room feel the psychological comfort, close the door .. So unique with yourself .. Not a bother .. Sit .. And imagine that someone like you Exactly .. Ijalsk ..
Start speech directed at him .. Talking about yourself .. Start with words .. For more than anything bothering you throughout your life .. From the person who feels that he controls you, and wishes to terminate his control, what more the events that hurt in your life .. Spoke Vdvd. Do not make any principles or morals of control in your words .. Spoke freely .. It does not matter reacted and started shouting abusive and this is the most important parts of pent-up feelings that exercise, go out. And attract her negatives in the form of insults or shouting or expression passive sentences.
Be nice if your side football Tqzvha strongly on the walls during outbursts of anger resulting from Actresses, it is more comfortable you sensitive
(These are examples of what practitioners are doing to these treatments, the intent of this does not make anything stop you from expressing what appeared to be .. Do you ..) Spoke and spoke and over .. Until you feel that the level of the emotion has subsided .. And talk .. Began is hard to build .. Here .. You already feel more comfortable from the first .. Undertake this exercise and connect it to a period of (two weeks) at least ..
Will come out of the room and you are someone else .. A different person .. Because you got rid of the concerns of stuck on the Guess of years.
The second method: free script .. Free Writing
A free script ..
It's the same idea, but you replace the expression in speaking, writing on paper. May be of Psychiatrists different methods in how to write their patients may give them .. A list of questions relating to their lives .. And analyze the answers ..
But we use the general method .. That the principle of bringing hidden by withdrawing the apparent .. Whenever we wrote any more .. And expressed more .. Starters, including recall .. Whenever brought us out from the depths, memories and feelings unknown and forgotten, tied with each other.
Way of writing does not depend not on literature and the culture .. Nor on the morality .. Hold the pen lightly, ie, do not press strongly on the pen .. Do not be nervous .. Write what appeared to you .. Get out of the depths of your heart .. Starting from the more something bothering you in your life .. Whether a person or a government or a position .. Or even of yourself .. Important .. Do not let anything stand in front of your phrase .. Type what appeared to you. Write for example .. Nuyak for good or bad that you have passed all your life .. Is true or not Type positions where you felt disappointed and a coward .. Write about someone you hate and matted it, you feel real to the type, and try to find the truth Lk him what is the origin and so on ..
Every day .. Writing with renewable .. Find topics abound .. And express a lot .. and over ..
And so on until complete (two weeks) .. Is the duration of treatment of the surface and discover the magnificence of the substance.
For the average person is sufficient to perform this exercise, which was accepted once a year.
Dear reader: not enough to want to respect ourselves, but we must do, including shows our respect for ourselves and ourselves .. Be a man .. Be yourself and do what is indicated by the.
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