Human Development: March 2011

Milestones between the successful and the failed

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Milestones between the successful and the failed

The first sign:

* Human successful:
Think that it is successful, and act and feel Kalnajehin, and dreams big dreams Kalnajehin, and believes his success, and his ability to face all obstacles and overcome them in order to reach its objectives. Must know that success is only a state of mind of the individual, if a person thinks that a successful attracted to everything from people and events and opportunities to achieve what he thinks and what they expect for himself and his life.

* Human failing:
Think and feel and act Calfahleyn, and dreamed of nothing less can be up to him or gets him, and smash the first hurdle a small stand in his way, he does not trust in himself and in his abilities, and believes firmly that no matter what, it will certainly fail.
This is a state of mind of human beings failed .. Where it attracts everything confirms his idea of himself, and help him to reach for the failure as soon as possible.

Conclusion: Think of the success comes success - Think of the failure to get it .. In the end, success and failure state of mind of the individual .. If you think you are successful you are successful, and if you think you failed, you failed, all what you think your subconscious mind will take it as fact and reality, and it will not Ejadlk Sitbah in your life to read as you want.

The second sign:

* Human successful:
Knows what he wants from his life, and then formulate a plan to them, and do all in its power to achieve its objectives, and to take the means, and insist on achieving success, he wakes am active outline the tasks of the day and writes and works very, very hard work and perseverance to accomplish them all, and watching the results and working to improve the plan is continuously commensurate with the new circumstances and events.

* Human failing:
Does not know what he wants from his life, betting works a little too expected reward or down by a stroke of luck from heaven to bring him what he wants .. A busy competitions and tricks at work, and looking for quick gain without effort or work. Tonietiqz am and does not know what he is doing his day and sees many concerns, but is not complete .. Sometimes lack of the system and has no plan or goal of moving through it, lost it does not know the way .. Leaves the same conditions of life and moving it wherever you want and however you want without interference from him.

Conclusion: Success is not a stroke of luck, does not come without effort or work .. Success requires a plan and a determination to achieve goals, and failure to mean surrender of the current circumstances, and conceits.


The third sign:

* Human successful:
More understanding and awareness of the results of his actions and deeds and words .. He is thinking of the consequences of everything, and identifies people and events that can be supported in achieving its objectives and seeks to make it in the recipe, and its principle (the most successful and others work with me) it ascends through cooperation with others .. It is through their success to achieve success.

* Human failing:
Careless and reckless, always has a state of indifference to everything he says, work and function, it is for not interested in it, which results from those statements or actions of the reactions to those around him or himself, and thus expose himself to many of the problems and tribulations, and his principles in life (I and behind me, the deluge) think of himself only wants to succeed does not matter who he tramples on the way to achieve this success alleged.

Conclusion: Human successful, discreet man to deal effectively with all things, positive and confident, and the reckless waste of human failing all the good opportunities for himself until his supporters turn against him.


Mark IV:

* Human successful:
Is on the successful approach and traces their steps .. Ask for their actions and how they, and how they became successful and distinct in, and they followed the steps to success, and works as working to achieve the same results, leading in his life as they get.

* Human failing:
Going adrift in life, does not plan does not take the goals, and leave life by going wherever it wants and place it wherever you want and be subject to circumstances not always under control.
If the work is there is nothing wrong to be a simple employee in the archive, or even representative in sales or in public relations .. What is important to have received his salary regularly, and nothing else is interested. It does not seek something not interested in his future, his life and professional standing, do not want to leave any fingerprints in the field of work or life.

Conclusion: If you want to succeed searched for a successful and create as they do to get what they got from the results, but if you do not care to be a failure, let life Tsirc as they want and be with the mainstream and do not expect to see safety without a map or plan for your life going by, Perhaps I would survive and perhaps sink, everything you have will be in accordance with the control conditions .. You are not your control.


Mark V:

* Human successful:
Try everything and take every opportunity to achieve its objectives or to solve problems and obstacles that may stand in his way, he felt at every opportunity grant to help him progress, a lover of change .. The change has meant progress and development and continue Vynagah, which controlled his life and on the variables of the controls around and waits and does not even come and impose their laws on it.

* Human failing:
Sits in place to what, God willing, "I do not moves", he would prefer the situation safe and secure, not try anything new or different, which stays in the same work throughout his life, and have the same friends and acquaintances, and goes to the same places, and live in the same house until the last his life. He is afraid of the new enemy terrified of change for growth and development. He sees in the plight of every opportunity .. It focuses on the problems and obstacles in trying to resolve never, Passivity part of his thinking and his life.
And man in this way .. Suffered throughout his life of tension and apprehension and subject all his life and his family to control the circumstances and variables to control it and control it.

Conclusion: The change will come inevitably, you should use in a timely manner and subject him to achieve your goals and ambitions .. Or wait is Ikhaddek then comes to control.
As for you to be in control of your life and make your life but subject to conditions and control variables and play it until your end.

Mark VI:

* Human successful:
Have the courage and the courage to achieve its objectives, and what he believes in, "says John Wayne: (courage to be scared to death, however, horseback riding your horse).
Courage is what makes you accomplish your goals and overcome all the obstacles and challenges, and decisions are taken the most aggressive to achieve what you want from life.

* Human failing:
AC always .. Iistmrar wonder in itself (I do or do not do .. I decide whether or not Otjl), it waits years and years even shrink in front of goal and lost and wander from it .. Even when he decides something has been lost over time and opportunity.

Conclusion: If you want something I go to take him .. You need the courage to get a life as you wish and want and even deserve, if not delayed Telmn but yourself, it may be too late and someone else took the opportunity while you are still thinking.


Mark VII:

* Human successful:
Loves himself and those around him, and fully aware of the value of life, and assesses language understanding and dialogue with the world around him .. This language, which opens its doors every success and happiness. He works what he loves and accept life as it is and walk under their laws, and he loves for his brother in humanity, what he loves for himself.

* Human failing:
Hates himself and those around him .. It is indignant on people and life .. Adheres to the feelings of hatred, malice and hatred, the feelings of a pay dispute other than instinct and laws of the universe .. Shall be to always have a state of turmoil and constant internal anger is at odds with itself and with life .. Sometimes it does not taste the sweetness of love or the sweetness of peace with oneself, and even considered a myth or non-existent, which paid for the loss of himself and all around him. It also does not like his brothers so good to see life is always going opposite of everything he wants.

Conclusion: Love is a wealth of successful and can not be achieved without success in anything, and deprived of love deprived of success in his life. What is the value of success if you do not find those who share your success and is pleased with you.
Says the height of Mandino: (saving love which received before anything else, It is the thing which will last long after the owner has to go and your health).

Mark VIII:

* Human successful:
He sees all things good and bad, which occur to him as the opportunities and grant of God Almighty. It is the biggest optimist in life and who takes them on as much as you can, looking for the circumstances they want, did not find them, make.
God says in the hadith Qudsi: (I am as My slave thinks, the better he thought me, but my thought Hravlh).

* Human failing:
Finds difficulty in everything .. It is pessimistic always expected always bad and all that is not in his favor, he felt always the cup half empty and ignores the Vow, and searching for reasons and excuses convince him that failure is inevitable, unavoidable and says to always the same: (there are obstacles in this matter - the circumstances do not allow the Anyway - I'm not the fittest to do something special ... etc), and so, following excuses even lost all the opportunities it, it does not have the willingness to fight a battle of life and achieve the aspirations of the goals, or maybe you see looking for from the work instead of him and dreams of profits that they would gain from fighting a battle from behind, and it is impossible to find the desired person except in his sleep.

Abstract: Margaret Thatcher says: (People think that there is no enough space on top. They tend to think at the summit as the Everest summit, which is not invincible. And I say here that there is a huge space to accommodate many of the top).

It is imperative that everyone knows that life can be expanded to many successful .. I only know what you want from your life? , And I am trying to achieve with courage, strength and determination, loving and be optimistic view of life where the most beautiful .. Similarly to reciprocate your life that love and giving.

Dumping of confidence

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Dumping of confidence

Speakers from the non-experienced, and experience, who lack self-confidence, and getting ready to prepare a modest or not preparing at all for the shed, can not normally transfer of consensus, and shared effectively with the audience, and they are reluctant to qualitatively speaking to the audience, and will face difficulties even in pronunciation of words, has been jumping from the address to another without any clear logic, and they explain some of the ideas at length, and limped on others are only superficial. And will hurry to talk to avoid any gaps long time for fear of believing in the audience that the speakers had forgotten what they want to talk about it, do not and perhaps even shaking nervously, worried, and demonstrate steadfast in their Mahmgayn in a fixed point, and avoiding looking directly to the audience.
If you showed a speakers nervous some of these signs, the impact is expected to impact the dumping will be reduced considerably reduced, if not communication takes place through the eyes (the eyes submitted in attendance), for example, the public will feel involuntarily that they are not interested in the course of dumping, and in the absence of regulation Clearly what they hear, they are difficult to follow what is going on in the dumping, and the absence of stopovers would mean the lack of time they have to absorb the idea that surprised by what presented the idea to the next.
The availability of confidence, and conviction you have in yourself, and your abilities, which helps to overcome many of these problems and the like, in everyday situations, people can visually confidence in themselves, usually, to convey their ideas effectively, how can not do it to take a formal? One of the reasons for their inability to return to the assumption that the dumping requires a different set of skills, which does not require it. There is little difference between the way in an official capacity to talk to colleagues at work, and the need to talk to in order to offer effective throwing to a wide audience of attendees.
If you would like codified way of expression through which the idea is by taking a certain, you will consider carefully the way in which you want to express through which, and certainly you will write complete sentences, and correct language, but this is not the way we talk. If Ntguena those sentences as it is written, it would seem unnatural, to hear some people talking, they often speak the sentences are incomplete, and may ignore most of the grammar, but you still understand what they say clearly, and what they say seems natural to you. In dumping, we want to be, and look natural and spontaneous, and live the same situation that we are during our talks everyday vitality.
There are things that occur naturally when we talk informally, and we lack these things during the dumping, we use the connection through the eyes, for example, suggesting to people that we intend to talk to them, and to ensure that attract their attention and interest in us. Then re-connect through the eyes with the audience on a regular basis while talking to them to attract their answers and their responses, researchers on the signs suggest that they understand what we say to them. If we felt they did not understand what we have expressed, we resort to re-some of what we talked about, or explained in another way, or perhaps supply an example to explain it, we read the signals from the audience continuously, and respond to those signals. Similarly, we use facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice in an automated fashion to help us in what we want to transfer messages to the attendees. In the face of the audience who listen to give specific, you may Ntsalb fear, and we are not able to use the skills that we apply in the positions of less formal ones.
It's our need, to some extent, we do throw in a different way, double Toturna, and Aspetna during the performance of dumping, Valasbip biological response to your existence in the unusual position and anonymous. What we need is a way we put the reservation under neural control, and self-control, and restrict it in a certain direction, but does not, and harnessed to serve our purpose of dumping. This is achieved by self-confidence, and belief that we can convey our thoughts dramatic way, this confidence translated into nervous energy into enthusiasm in the transfer of our mission. The best way to give yourself confidence which is to be ready to prepare properly for throwing. We advise you to begin to prepare for any statement by the President ahead of schedule by several weeks.

Social skills help to interact with others

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Social skills help to interact with others

Successful social relationships are an integral part of proving self-defense, the ability to achieve goals. And social skills that help to interact with those around you: A guide of flattery, to facilitate the conversation, the expression of positive thoughts and the recognition of dereliction
Directing praise and accepted by
Rarely brought to one of praise for others, even if it was found that a high degree of intelligence or that he has done an excellent job, it was thought that the admiration and a very clear or may be seen that the convergence of the echo is required. However, people mostly like to praise, albeit for different reactions it, so we encourage you here to guide him, without fear or embarrassment, one of us does not need the views of others to enhance self-confidence? There is no need to prevent you from continuing negative response in the direction of positive feedback to the person himself or herself or to other conditions in which to be honest. Not less than the way in which the note or the importance of praise for what you say. Spoke in a clear voice and self-confidence and look in the eyes of who you talk to. Express your thoughts on the positive third party, or you are depriving yourself of social skill and others happy at the same time strengthen your self-confidence.
Facilitate the conversation
Psychology helps to prove in the talks to establish a new relationship, get out of difficult situations. And two types of people: some of them fear to talk to strangers in social events recedes and the other is expected to begin, including the control of the conversations quickly and does not leave space for someone else.
However, the proof of self includes the knowledge to begin to talk and follow a way that serves self-interest.

The first observation What you need is a general observation start out by talking and are suitable for the position. For example, "hello, do not think you know me, I ..." Let me know about myself, my name is ... "
Home The best way to start is the question, any question transient allowed to start talking: Have you ever attended such an occasion? And it may seem artificial at the outset must be things in a natural way later.
Sequel Continued to ask questions, especially those that generate ideas and attempted to follow the talk. For example, what do you think of what we heard today about ...? / What do you think of the new system ...? Always remember that most people like to ask about their views and open them to the area to talk about themselves and their own experiences. Results of this method is more useful than those usually used by people that know the question that calls directed the approval of the listener, for example: Do not you think that you should not ....? / This is a good idea, right? Questions are the work of the catalyst. It will save you effort searching for what you say and give you the opportunity to control the modern, as you listen to the answers and ask more questions around, as they please people because it makes them think you are interested in what they say just because you ask them and listen to them. But you, despite your efforts and large, you may hit the wall brings the answers (yes, no, I do not know anything about this topic) you do not have to provide only your own thoughts or withdrawal in a proper way.
The expression of positive thoughts
Sometimes you may find that someone has done deserves recognition, or stop and courageous stand on the issue of certain, but you do not reflect his thinking on this, do not be thinking any positive benefit. So that you may regret later because you did not tell him what it was possible to help you in either your business or in your relationship with him.
Proof that a self-imposed expression of feelings, for example, I am very impressed by your acceptance of the view of the group, despite that it interferes with your point of view of, this reflects a lot of maturity in practice. I am astonished at the way in which I was able to control this situation, tired. The expression of admiration for the other simple and effective way to consolidate the relationship with them, they do not make others happy, but also Isaadk you also just Ivsag for your own feelings.
Recognition of dereliction
Many people believe that their recognition of the ignorance of some things or not understanding of certain issues or their inability to perform a task that would weaken their position, but on the contrary help them to prove themselves. We all feel sometimes failing, but in most of us refuse to admit. For example, if I said: As long as you are weak in numbers and calculations, can you explain the matter more simply expressed? You may encourage others to recognize Bnoaqs without fear or shame. Proving self also means the ability to recognize weak points without fear of what others may think, the justificatory method is totally incompatible with the principle of recognition of dereliction. If you are gaining the courage to recognize the points of weakness can show to others that you are an ordinary person like them and thus encourages them to act more confidently in front of you and deal with you openly.
Summary: to act with building
Help diverse social skills to prove yourself and encourage others to respond to you, whether you're a natural entertainer who loves to take the lead or on the contrary the convergence on yourself. Including: accepting praise from others and directing them to express positive thoughts chatting with others.

Proper planning and preparation for delivery

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Proper planning and preparation for delivery

If we can transfer ideas, and opinions clearly during everyday situations without preparing for it, why we need to prepare for the performance of dumping? There are two main reasons for this are:
First: During the dumping takes twenty minutes or more will need to transfer large amount of information, far superior to what we used to move the meeting day. Rarely get the opportunity to attend during the throw for a boycott of the speaker, and ask for an explanation of what information, and therefore we must take our ideas with the greatest possible clarity. We want to give easy dumping structured follow-up, and put forward ideas in ways the audience can understand, and absorb easily.
Second: If we are not accustomed to the performance of dumping, the situation may be full of surprises non-specific, which occur concern the performance of difficult for us to throw as required, and we find it difficult to pronounce words, and we can not think clearly. The willingness to help us remove the uncertainties of dumping. In fact, the willingness to shed gives you confidence in the performance in a way more natural.
Let's look at some of these uncertainties. There are four essential ingredients for any dumping, and the shortcut and h / m t will help you to remember: H = attendance, and = means, m = submitted, t = your message.
Faces provided limited experience, and experience things unknown in four areas:
What to Expect the audience?
Do you listen to me?
How will their reactions to what I have to say to them?
How will stand in front of them?
Do I have to use a lot of slides?
Do you behave with them in a formal way?
What happens if I forget what I want to say to them?
Do you understand what I will talk with him?
The ready answer to these questions, and many others that can cause trouble for the author with little experience, and experience (and even to the sponsors who are used to provide many of Alilqaouat). The preparation will help you avoid many pitfalls.

Some of the pitfalls that occur in the public presentation: Attendance:
Last do not understand why people did not provide people with information they want, or need, really.
Overestimated the knowledge available to them on the subject, and could not understand the topic you were talking about.
Media:
You set up dumping stressing checking on the details of the subject, and you choose your words carefully, and made a throw word for word, began dumping boring, and stopped for the audience to listen to you.
Slides that seemed to have prepared professionally Exquisite, but when I explained these slides the audience was more interested in segments of interest in what I was talking about.
Submitted by the presentation:
Focus your eyes on the blog because of your feedback Qkulk on the transfer of your message correctly, they felt a presence neglected by you, did not observe fragmentation of their attention from the dumping.
Did not stop and temporarily stops during the dumping because of fear of the possibility of people believe that you forgot what I wanted to transmit the information to them, did not give the audience a moment of time to come to grips with the idea of what, before you begin to explain the idea that followed.

Message:
Were not clear in the presentation of the message that you want to transfer to attend, attendance did not know that message too.
Explained ideas for a way to give excellent examples, but they were not appropriate to attend, attendance has lost interest in your message, and you lose your influence on them.
By studying these examples you will notice that the attendees are always the center of the problem, and that through them you can only achieve the objectives of Ilqaik. You when preparing for any dumping that start with the audience.

How to earn your respect for yourself?

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How to earn your respect for yourself?

كيف تكسب إحترامك لنفسك ؟! خطوات ترشدك للطريق

Each is unaware of his identity and does not know who he is? Is it genuine or false? Good or evil? Believer or a hypocrite? The answer is very simple! You must first be cleaned shake over the surface to know what is in the rear!

Who am I?!
I am a man of God blessed with all the possibilities and capabilities that I can get to know them on my way, and Aftrty sound 100% .. In Alddan of the two (good and evil) and Pidie rights that I went to this direction or that direction, both in my hands, and I am in control of all human transactions which take place through me.

Who am I?!
I "person" I know that good and evil in front of me in front of me and that I choose my way and I am responsible for the consequences of all the dealings of all kinds with life and Sohacb Sohacb of myself and of the community and before God Almighty .. So the inevitable choice but to be a man ..!

If I had .. Continue in the right way it does not deviate, whatever the circumstances and pressures.
If Oktit .. Returned quickly and I am working to correct the mistakes and avoid them in the future.

I know I am a person who has suffered has made a mistake and this does not detract from the Kadri something, but I wore the dress stubbornness are all sins and is the master and I insisted that I am correct.

And now you know how you can earn your respect for yourself .. You have to work it and tame and fixing them by following these guidelines:

  1 - to respect yourself, you must first respect others

It is unreasonable to respect myself and I speak with the "person" as if I loved him and loved him well, backed Eds him mangling the image and reputation, and interfere in his life and privacy without his ear and that is not appropriate .. How can I respect myself?!.
I respect others and their lives and their privacy .. So do not feel guilt towards them and thus feel Besgrk, and your respect for yourself not just as grown harvested, and also condemns the condemned, and busy for God, God's creation.

  2 - do not prove yourself to one, not even for yourself

The proof of self-weakening them and their essence .. Be honest in all transactions regardless of the opinions of others, you can satisfy yourself, but no matter how hard I tried to satisfy all the people .. So be yourself and make your life perfect recital performance according to your vision and your personality is not in accordance with the views of others and their needs you ... It is not what you are Itqublk he should Itqublk from now .. You will not find else, the picture drawn by others you are not an obligation does not belong to you, they are free to do; including their thoughts and fantasies, and you are free to you you .. You.

  3 - Ethics: Be Kellouka friendly

Morals are your passport to respect yourself .. A man without ethics (not man) says the Holy Prophet peace be upon him: (but sent to perfect good manners), does your creation Islam Are you on the path of your Prophet peace be upon him?! .. Warning Be careful, my brother, my sister .. Morals are what make us better human being human beings better believe better.

  4 - Do not criticize or demean or groove

I think you learn the story of the creation of Adam peace be upon him and how the devil put down the fact that the Prophet peace be upon him Adam was created from clay and seek refuge with Allah from Satan the creation of a fire. How was to reward him?!
Dear reader: Do not criticize Vtantkd .. Nor groove You see some heedless .. Would not demean others degrades You see some of your business, and may God punish you and you would demean yourself at home and Allah is severe in punishment. God says in His Book: (O ye who believe, do not make fun of the people of the people hoping to be good for them, nor women from the women may be that not Giramnhen nor call each other Tnabzoa yourselves, do not name-calling evil debauchery after faith and does not repent, they are wrong) (rooms: 11) the truth of God Almighty.

  5 - do not achieve the goals of someone else in life, you achieved your goals

Do not enter a particular college to satisfy the family .. Do not marry so and so because the interest so require .. Did not enroll in a job or position because of your father what he had dreamed all his life in this position.
You know your goals in life and achieved what you want for your life is not what you Iredoh others.
Not lived in the mantle of others .. Respect yourself and make your future travel and effort you and your ambition.

  6 - to view the beauty of your personality forget the past and start again

Ended, the negative thoughts and beliefs that have held it by yourself throughout your life and start a new page with the page yourself in high esteem and entitlement to a clean new beginning .. I reject that person is old and begin by thy inner (Aftrtk sound) and begin to seek the help of God's blessing and it does not fail to avail forces Nasrtk and be honest in the beginning of the new God help you in this journey and ask forgiveness for all sins and the sins .. Due not only to the surface again with you and the new man .. Stsolny and who is he? I'll tell you is you!
Is not the answer is simpler than you think Be .. You, and you ended, all the mistakes of years you deserve to honor that person who wronged for many years .. It is worth it.

Here are two ways to clean up last year to start all over again: Quoting from the Internet

The first way: hands-free .. Free Talking
Hands-free .. It looks like the process of free association .. But it is more effective. Is a method may Isth some do, but if he benefits .. To make way for shame in his being. Method is as follows:
Majoring in half an hour today .. Left where all your business and Mhaglk .. Intervention in the room feel the psychological comfort, close the door .. So unique with yourself .. Not a bother .. Sit .. And imagine that someone like you Exactly .. Ijalsk ..
Start speech directed at him .. Talking about yourself .. Start with words .. For more than anything bothering you throughout your life .. From the person who feels that he controls you, and wishes to terminate his control, what more the events that hurt in your life .. Spoke Vdvd. Do not make any principles or morals of control in your words .. Spoke freely .. It does not matter reacted and started shouting abusive and this is the most important parts of pent-up feelings that exercise, go out. And attract her negatives in the form of insults or shouting or expression passive sentences.
Be nice if your side football Tqzvha strongly on the walls during outbursts of anger resulting from Actresses, it is more comfortable you sensitive
(These are examples of what practitioners are doing to these treatments, the intent of this does not make anything stop you from expressing what appeared to be .. Do you ..) Spoke and spoke and over .. Until you feel that the level of the emotion has subsided .. And talk .. Began is hard to build .. Here .. You already feel more comfortable from the first .. Undertake this exercise and connect it to a period of (two weeks) at least ..
Will come out of the room and you are someone else .. A different person .. Because you got rid of the concerns of stuck on the Guess of years.
The second method: free script .. Free Writing
A free script ..
It's the same idea, but you replace the expression in speaking, writing on paper. May be of Psychiatrists different methods in how to write their patients may give them .. A list of questions relating to their lives .. And analyze the answers ..
But we use the general method .. That the principle of bringing hidden by withdrawing the apparent .. Whenever we wrote any more .. And expressed more .. Starters, including recall .. Whenever brought us out from the depths, memories and feelings unknown and forgotten, tied with each other.
Way of writing does not depend not on literature and the culture .. Nor on the morality .. Hold the pen lightly, ie, do not press strongly on the pen .. Do not be nervous .. Write what appeared to you .. Get out of the depths of your heart .. Starting from the more something bothering you in your life .. Whether a person or a government or a position .. Or even of yourself .. Important .. Do not let anything stand in front of your phrase .. Type what appeared to you. Write for example .. Nuyak for good or bad that you have passed all your life .. Is true or not Type positions where you felt disappointed and a coward .. Write about someone you hate and matted it, you feel real to the type, and try to find the truth Lk him what is the origin and so on ..
Every day .. Writing with renewable .. Find topics abound .. And express a lot .. and over ..
And so on until complete (two weeks) .. Is the duration of treatment of the surface and discover the magnificence of the substance.

For the average person is sufficient to perform this exercise, which was accepted once a year.
Dear reader: not enough to want to respect ourselves, but we must do, including shows our respect for ourselves and ourselves .. Be a man .. Be yourself and do what is indicated by the.

Methods of communication

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Methods of communication Offer style and go: When you feel confident, but cooperation is not effective Some people can maintain this method all the time that they Ahjumien always, and engage in a lot of discussion is not necessary. There are also some people are also of this kind, where moving when they feel that the person in front of them less powerful and influential of them.
This method does not tend to get on the cooperation of other people and could turn them into enemies. Therefore, it is an isolated single method can result in many undesirable consequences of emotions. The method that should win and win I do not care who loses is a method that is effective in solving problems and also tends to push other people to either escape, or to discontent and blind obedience.

Department of controversy and disagreement
Method to escape when you do not feel confident in collaboration It is easy to force you to follow this method if faced with an aggressive person, or Gillana. Since you do not feel strong enough to face the other person does not see why you have to work all the cooperation when the other party does not provide any cooperation at all. This lets you avoid that this person, or leave the whole issue and withdraw as it would be a good way to reap the feelings of resentment, frustration, and irritability. If these feelings are either Stach inside you or explode violently when it reaches the situation to the brink of explosion, and then click endurance.
Method Yes, sir: When is cooperation and lack of confidence A lot of people have been brought up to obedience, assistance and cooperation to avoid disturbing others, especially their superiors, and that hides the negative feelings and try to appear calm. They also feel it is rude to ask for their need and go directly to the use of suggestion in the hope that people understand what they mean and what they want. And really it is a great way to prepare yourself because of frustration as most of us are not able to read thoughts.
And clearly, it is good to have a cooperative and rights but must also be confident of himself to put his point of view and asks what he wants, and negotiate practical ways to move on. It is possible to note that you can not buy a relationship of mutual respect concessions by you in favor of the other party where the latter does not offer any concessions.
The people who use this method many, and perhaps they are people who do not like the abuse, or conflict with others. It is ironic that a waiver of the will often turn them into aggressive people later.
Let's share our way of benefits when you feel the confidence and cooperation of the intermediate This method aims to find a settlement process coexists with the parties, so it has some of the benefits include a waiver of the parties want things in order to achieve anything they want really, and that access to the operational agreement. This way and that you are likely to result in acts of the most influential of the three previous methods where if the parties happened to some of the objectives Iredanha they would abide by this agreement and moving forward.
The people are inclined by nature to target to reach a settlement when they want to see any practical results, but they trust completely the other party as it could not be direct and open fully and try to maneuver or outwit the other party so that the win slice and plenty of cake to them. This method usually has a deceptive short-term gains, but there will be a loss of influential and important in the long term.
At least the method of mutual benefit can be a practical approach is successful because most people are open to negotiations because it is the road to bring in gains, and improvement. The people The method Yes, sir all the time will find it reasonable and easily switch to a method of mutual benefit, sir.
Method Let's win Monday when is the cooperation and confidence of participants The main difference between this method and other previous methods is that you focus on resolving issues rather than trying to defeat the other party, or defend yourself against the dangers of real or imagined. The two teams are working with each other to get the best possible answers to both of them with, it seems at first glance Kelsafqp, which assume that the cake has a certain size is likely to occur some problems to share that cake. Nevertheless, the two teams who have been working with each other to solve problems Can they create an benefit to each other by creating an atmosphere of mutual trust and cooperation, therefore, this will create an atmosphere of trust and will trust your other party and this will not take a step only if they demonstrate that you are trustworthy.
How does the success of the method let us win two Will only be able to work on the success of this method if:
I wanted to take advantage of the current situation.
I wanted also to make the other party takes advantage of this situation.
If you want to improve relations with him.
If you can act in a manner worthy of confidence.
If you can focus on practical solutions to disputes.
If I was able to stop attempts to score points for you or defeat the other party.
If you can respect the other person, and what plans do you do, do what you say and remain calm while saying that negotiating joint solutions useful.
The method Let's win two is not user-friendly manner, but promising a unique method that can start with as it gives practical solutions that does not leave a bitter feeling on both sides. In addition, if started in this way did not work you can resort to the other four previous methods. And if you start one of those four did not succeed in this you did not create the right conditions for the success of the method let us win two.
What are your priorities Favorites? There are questionnaires designed to diagnose your favorite style, however intelligent and as a person know a little about yourself, I suggest you to ask you to decide. First, identify the five differences occurred with some of the variety of people:
The one where I was happy with the result.
One where you are not happy with the result.
One where she thinks that the other person was not happy.
Where one believes that the other person was happy.
And that ye know the one where things were happy.
Now think about how you made an entry for each of these conditions and without the following observations:
Which method you used to start with each one.
What are other methods that have been used.
Any method used by more than others.
Any method used by less than others.
No method has succeeded more than others.
Any method of failure was bad.

How to build success?

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How to build success?

Not only from one person and would like to be successful in life, but few of them know how to think successful, failed and how to think.
Therefore, we find many of them claiming to be successful, while his thinking can not only led to failure, and possibly even the failure or failure feat, or failure that has no parallel, or failure excellent or say what you want varieties of failure what counts or freedman !!
Now here's thirteen teams distinguish successful thinking about the failed thinking, and I invite you to reflect in depth, and then to change the style of thinking is consistent with the thinking of the successful.

Successful thinking in the solution, and the failed thinking of the problem:
Narrated that a man came to Solomon, son of David, peace be upon him and said: "O Prophet of God, that neighbors are stealing Ozzy I do not know the thief, he cried: Prayer University, and then addressed them and said in his sermon: The one of you to steal geese neighbor then entered the mosque and feathers on his head, he wiped the man head, Solomon said: Take him he is your companion.

2 - Successful short of ideas, and failed Endless Excuses:
Speeches invasive bin Division and a boy of Arab woman, the boy was a young beautiful, sending them to attend then surveying events, and sat down to catch them and hear their words, when he saw marauding so young, have inspected the beauty of science as Twtherh him, turned to the fatwa and said: You have been given beautiful Do you have any is this? He said: Yes, number of advantages, and then became silent. Mugheerah said: "How your account with your family? Said: "What is hidden on anything from him, I am however, it more accurately than mustard, invasive, he said: But I put in my house Badra Vinfgaha my family what they want I do not know Bnvadha even ask me more. The woman said: By Allah, this does not call me to account Sheikh, who is dearer to me than this, which counts on the weight of the atom, married to the marauders.

3 - successful help others, and failed expect help from others:
Ben said Dahhaak Muzahim to a Christian: if converted to Islam! He said: "I'm still a fan of Islam but it prevents me from my love of wine, he said: the safest and drink it, and when he said to him, the safest Dahhaak: I have converted to Islam, the Cherbtha Hddnak, although Artddt we kill you, choose for yourself, he chose Islam and a good Muslim.

4 - Successful finds a solution in every problem, and failed see a problem in every solution:
Roy came out that two women and two boys with them, As well as being a wolf boy, one Voklh, Fajtsmta boy in the rest to David peace be upon him, said: How are you both? Vqsta him the story, sentenced him to two major, Fajtsmta to Solomon, peace be upon him, he said: Bring me the hardest boy in half with a knife, both of you a half, said Minor: Ochgah O Prophet of God? He said: Yes, she said: do not do my share and in which the major, he said: Take him he is your son, and spent by them.

5 - successful to say: The solution is difficult but possible, and failed to say: The solution is possible but difficult:
Has brought Maan Bin trailing three hundred prisoners from Hadhramaut, ordered his men to their necks, so their boy said: "I adjure you by God not to kill us and we Attash, said: Asagohm, and when he drank, he said: Blow their necks, he said the young man: I adjure you by God not to kill Divank, said: Well done , and ordered to release.

6 - Achievement is committed to the successful and unsuccessful accomplishment is not more than a promise:
How many sigh Omar Bin Al Khattab may Allah be pleased with him to wriggle out of the Persian commander Hermzan, where he wanted to Omar, may Allah Almighty killed Hermzan prayed for rain water, Bakdh him when the water, Vomskh Hermzan in his hand and was troubled. Omar said to him: Do not worry even drink, threw Hermzan mug from his hand, he ordered Umar to kill him, said Hermzan: or did not believe in? Umar said: "How can I ask you? Hermzan said: I do not even drink nothing wrong with you, and you say you have a good safety, and did not drink, Umar said: "God took me to strike you dead and did not feel safer.

7 - successful has dreams to achieve, and has failed to illusions and dreams dissipated:

Try Cyrus deceive Amr Ibn al-may Allah be pleased with him to the besieged, he ordered the men to carry their weapons coming towards their faces to the outside, "that is, to Muslims," and commanded the women to be lived on the walls of Babylon garnish Bjrhan inwards to increase the numbers of the number Verhbwa Muslims, sent to Amr bin Aas, may Allah him to declare it a psychological war is the most intelligent, which sought, where he wrote him: I have seen what I have done, and as often Gbanna, have we met before you, Hercules was ordered from what it was. When he arrived in the book to Cyrus has had a profound impact on himself, he said to his companions: "Believe those people, get out of his kingdom until the King of Constantinople, induced, first we acquiesce.

8 - successful says:
Treat others as you would be done, and failed to say: Deceiving the people before that fool you.

9 - see the successful work in the hope, and failed to see the work of Alma.

10 - the successful consideration of the future and looks forward to what is possible, and failed to consider the past and looking forward to what is impossible.

11 - successful chooses what he says, "says Don failed to choose:
Wrath of Haroun al-Rashid Hamid al-Tusi called on his sword and Alnta, wept and said: "What makes you cry? Said: God, what scared of death, it has to be reality, but I cried in sorrow for my departure from this world and the faithful indignant Ali, Aaron laughed and forgave him.

12 - Discusses strongly successful, but a nice language, and failed cling to trivial and give up the values.

13 - makes the successful events, failed events manufactured by:
It was narrated that a man in order to Hajj Fastoda man money, and when he returned he was told, Fjhdh the warehouse, so he told the judge made Iiasa, said: "I know you may Jitni?, Said:" No, he said: come back to after two days, then the judge Iiasa sent to the man brought it, and then said to him: I have obtained I have a lot of money for orphans and other deposits of the people I am traveling journey away, and I want to be deposited have what I have heard of your religion and protect your home, the man said: love and dignity, "said Iyas bin Muawiya: go and prepare a place for money and some people who carry it. The man departed, and came the owner of the deposit, said to him, the judge menopause: Take to the owner, and say to him: Push to Mali, but your complaint to the judge menopause, when he came and said to him, pay him his money and apologized to him, took him and came to the judge menopause and told him. Then came the man and his porters to request the funds mentioned by the judge, the judge said to him: it seemed to me to leave to travel, go to your business, no more of God in people like you.

If a person has hidden talents and energies of stores is known to him, and all that is needed is to reassure the conscious mind of its existence, then they start in life and work miracles.

How many people have entered in the field, it was not apparent talent has entered the work to be done, and from success to success, until he became a senior specialist in that area.

Necessarily have the talent ..... why not exploited?? Search for it in yourself or you lack confidence and invade procrastination and laziness??
Forgiveness ..... my brother, but to be a weapon destroys the barrier that people do not make you think and that thought is not trying ....

One said: "Ninety thousand men loser retreating before the ninety thousand men Zafer because they have lost confidence in themselves, and no longer believe in the triumph, and because their morale is weakened in the end."

Lift up your head up, and smile .... you have the idea and is the foundation, everything stems from the desire and every sincere calls answered ....
Vovicoa and applied to the front of my brothers .........
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Successful always trust in their abilities to succeed.
If you want to be a brilliant try and learn and try.
Nothing is impossible if you trust in God, and resolved.

I was born to succeed and succeed ... Show me what did I do?

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